specula [postscript]

[Charles F. Albert]

> My pain is nothing compared to that, and her experiences are not the
> exception, unfortunately. It has nothing to do with concession;  it has to
> do with honesty , compassion, and a willingness to make healthy changes.
> 
> Now I am ready to move on. Are you?

Yeah, just let me get rid of breakfast and lunch first.

Hey, so people suck. Some guys are twits and jerks. Nature cruelly 
imposed the burden of childbirth and the maintainance of their sexual 
organs on women. What part of that will unbounded sympathy, or even 
in the case of mr. S., testosterone impeded EMPATHY, resolve or 
change? 
This is why, contrary to what DANA insists, motivation is so 
important.
But don't let that discourage you from forming the "ACCEPTABLE 
LANGUAGE MONITORING SERVICE". After all, since we can't always tell 
when we are being insensitive, we'll need guidance. Thank you for 
being there.
love,
cfa