Vineland

[jd]

You definitely have a point...  I think the thing that makes me blame
her is the fact that she joined this somewhat radical group, and then
totally turned on them, and I sort of feel like that's why a lot of
social movements fail.  The "big" side gets the "small" side afraid
and questioning themselves and suddenly they're turning on each other
and tear each other apart while the "big" side just has to sit there
and watch.

I see what you're saying about Stockholm Syndrome, I'm just not 100%
sure that I can forgive her for it.  You definitely have a point
though and I'm going to have to consider it for awhile.