or possibly the coolest guy in the world here, with advice that the Big O could use (imho) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxl4lQ8tmdM&feature=list_related&playnext=1&list=MLGxdCwVVULXdN1oshGao7Px7p8puVRXXg -- "Three things in life are important. The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind." - Henry James