another thought-provoking question

[Michael Bailey]

Mark was thinking:
>Sasha, I believe it is, says sometimes when having sex--with Wolfmann, not Doc, if I remember right, she says she feels invisible.
>Discuss? Discuss.
quotha..


well, Peg Bundy used to say about her ambitions: "I want to be
nothing.  I want to do nothing."

which is all that is left when a man so thoroughly takes over...

a-and, in the movie Crumb, one of his ladyfriends said sex with him was just the
opposite: it was all about HER, him making her feel awesome and him reveling
in her beauty - never the other way

I suppose healthy would be some of both and a nice melding in the middle...
me, I'm more of a Crumb-type lover meself...not boasting, all that
reveling can wear a girl out I suspect...

In (William Gibson's)  _Pattern Recognition_ I think Bigend's
described as a "Lombard" -
lots of money but a real dickhead -
it's all about HIM, his power, his money, his ability to jump queues
and get tables without a reservation, his strength and stamina in bed...

(ok, that was a bit of discussion - I'm rather low on ideas and stuff
right now...
although starting to feel a little more lively...)


-- 
-- "(Sure, you can build a great sense of self-worth by carrying around
an unfolded accordion, but sometimes a person needs to wallow in
self-doubt, carefully concealing the squeeze-box.)" - why's Poignant
Guide to Ruby